A wave of indignation is spreading through social networks: on the morning of Thursday, the SIC, the program Life In Letters – the Dilemma , the tarot reader Carla Duarte advised a woman who introduced himself as a victim of domestic violence to be patient with her husband and pamper you, like a child.
Maria Gloria called in anticipation of Carla Duarte tell you what your current state of health and if your husband has another. The woman, 64, walks frightened by the possibility of having a malignant tumor, as has happened several family members, and her husband’s behavior did not help. “I’ve been very nervous derived my husband. For 40 years I suffer from domestic violation, how do you say that? “He asks. “Violence”, helps the tarot reader. “It beats me, he does …”
Carla Duarte does not want to hear more. It’s time to say what number to which viewers can call to put him two dilemmas. When you resume the conversation with Maria da Gloria, lay the cards, tell him that despite the family history, “does not have anything,” you go making periodic checks. On the marital relationship, advises her to think about what you can do. “What matter if he has someone or not, by what you have at home? For now, he has no one. Here alone. Ah. He wants a mother, does not want a woman. “
The tarot reader recommends patience to the spectator. Advises her to not discuss, not to seek conflict. “There is no separation here, why you chose this man, regardless of everything, as it is with him that will be,” he says. “When we give love, receive love, even in the least amount. If we give violence, violence received. If you get violence, cut this cycle and do not give violence, even for words or … treat it. However difficult it is, however difficult that may be. Okay “
Even if you hear Glory of Mary say,” It is very difficult to do. I always walk to the front, to make peace. ” And Carla Duarte to retort: ”For it has. Like the mother. And still, it is for this not worse. And so it does not worsen. It’s ok? You know him well, you know that you can give treat. “
The outrage came to social networks. He wrote journalist Rita Marrafa de Carvalho on his Facebook page: “Never speak in APAV [Portuguese Association for Victim Support]. In respect. In dignity. In ‘go away you deserve more and better. ” Never say ‘do not have to be subjected to a violent marriage.’ “
At the end of the day, the message that journalist RTP had already been shared by more than a thousand people and the video already had close to 100 thousand views. Many people said it would complain and encouraged the complaint to the Regulator of Social Communication.
“The media have been essential in disseminating information to victims of crime, in particular the victims of domestic violence “, points out Daniel Cotrim, the APAV, in a telephone conversation. Programs like that are seen by many people, some victims of domestic violence. It would be crucial, he says, do not blame the victim and not to excuse the aggressor.
Domestic violence is a public crime, which means that does not depend on the victim’s complaint. Viewers will not have data to take that case to the authorities. May remember Daniel Cotrim, express outrage to the production, to the direction of programs or the Regulatory Authority for Social Communication. “This can not happen. As a member of an organization of victim support, I am outraged. “
The Association Project Create ponders asking responsibilities to SIC. “The tarot reader does not know the level of violence,” says Leonor Valente Monteiro, president of that organization. “Advise the lady did not even appeal to the authorities can be fatal.”
In his view, “there should be a manual of good practice for this type of situations.” “If a person contacts a TV channel to ask for advice and denounces a crime should be advised to use the channels available to the victims,” believes. “People who have access to television spaces, particularly spaces for personal counseling should refrain from having accomplices speeches with public crimes. “
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